Who told you it wasn't fitting?
It's YOUR wedding! So what YOU say goes!
I was raging because a friend of mine asked me to help video her wedding - And the minister told her that we couldn't shoot the actual ceremony in the church, as it was "inappropriate".
What a tool.
In the end, he relented, but IMHO he was well out of order there. Your wedding is one of the most important days of your life, so unless you want to do something actively offensive to the people who's building you're using for the event, it should be your call.
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