Hey MAA. Let me assure you that Airsoft Club, Den Trinity, WarGameClub, Airsoft Shop, and a few other Hong Kong or Tokyo based retailers are all extremely reliable and very helpful. Myself as well as the hundreds of other Airsofters like me all trust their businesses, but hesistence is always a good thing such as you pointed out. Also, in regards to the M41A Den Trinity is offering, I believe it to be the same as the G&P model. Several retailers have been selling G&P model M41As under different distributor names, and Den might be doing the same. I know that the "ARMOUR M41A" at WarGameClub is the same as the G&P model, and several other shops are doing similar things.
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